Be Real Now
Stop people-pleasing. Start living authentically.
Afraid people won’t like the real you? The truth is, authenticity builds deeper, more meaningful connections. Imagine showing up fully in every moment and being loved for it. You deserve the life you desire—I’m here to help.
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Are you tired of...
Faking it? Wearing a mask?
Do you say 'yes' when you mean 'no?' OR 'I don't know' or 'I'm not sure,' to avoid confrontation?
People Pleasing?
Do you let people violate your boundaries or struggle to even know what your boundaries are?
Being afraid of disappointing others?
Is fear of people not liking you because you're too honest holding you back from living your dream?
What is connection coaching?
My approach isn't about quick fixes, but guiding people on a journey to more genuine fulfilling lives. Whether in one-on-one sessions, group coaching, or open workshops, my goal remains the same: to help you shed your masks so you can fully bring the real you to all of your relationships. Imagine the ease of being authentically you at every moment.
Ready to make a change now? Click the button at the top to schedule a FREE discovery call.
Ways to work with me
One-on-One & Couples Coaching
This work is deep and takes time. Together we shine a light on the areas of your life that are keeping you stuck. Reach out for details and to make sure we're a good fit.
Group Coaching & Events
I offer life-changing connection programs, group coaching, and a variety of transformational experiences both in person and digitally. Reach out to learn more.
Hired Facilitation & retreats
I can facilitate transformation for your retreat! I guide embodiment through dance and authentic relating. I have many years of guiding people into transformation.
Hi, I'm Ashur...
I help you authentically show up in all of your relationships -- even when its scary -- and live the life you desire free from guilt or obligation.
Why do I do this? Because I've been there. I know firsthand the cost of living out of alignment with my desires and values. For many years, I struggled with insomnia, paying the price of inauthenticity with my sleep and vitality. But the day I got honest with myself and made necessary changes, I slept soundly. This journey taught me the power of listening to my inner wisdom even when its scary, and now I'm here to support you in doing the same.
My mission is simple yet profound: to guide people in bringing their most authentic selves to all of their relationships, self included. No more pretending, no more masks—just the real you.
I am honored to be of service.
Here's me, ask me anything...
Who I am . . .
I'm ready to show up fully and authentically. I'm a human with highs and lows and everything in between. Ask me anything and I'll respond honestly.
Why I do it . . .
I do it because I lived it. I suppressed my own inner voice for fear of not being accepted and loved. For two years I experienced insomnia, misery, and dissatisfaction. If you're faking it, know that you don't have to.
Are you tired of faking it in your personal and professional relationships?
Take a breath, it's okay to be you!
Testimonials
"I got to become more comfortable with being vulnerable, with communicating and it just felt great! Showing my authentic self I got to go on dates and do that with people I've never met before..."
- Mike M.
Attended Conscious Intimacy Events in Mexico
"I feel really safe in my own experience... he helps me realize things about myself... I can have a thought and its okay to have whatever reaction about that thought. It's all safe. It's all safe. It's okay to just be myself, whoever that is... And that's what Ashur's great at doing, going 'hang on, what was that, let's go deeper,' you can't hide that, its a part of your experience... When I chat with Ashur, it's all possible."
- Amy E.
Former Television executive - Boulder, CO
Ready for change?
Benefits of Working Together
Through our work, you'll learn to:
Express and share your true emotions
Set healthy boundaries
Communicate your needs effectively
Live in alignment with your values
Strengthen meaningful relationships
Cultivate self-compassion and self-love
Cut through the noise of your own story
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A few more testimonials
"Ashur created a safe space for me to show up in my full authenticity without the fear of being judged. He had such a way of opening up the space that even though I was hesitant and timid, his presence gave me the confidence to be fully authentic in my expression. That was huge for me! I've struggled with using my voice and speaking up. Now I've been better able to open up and express myself directly instead of being passive aggressive in my expressions."
Claire L.
Habit coach & mentor - Puerto Escondido, Mexico
"Ashur is a beacon for others in search of their authenticity. For everyone he engages with, Ashur forges an enormous space for their entirety to shine. He cuts through the fluff, the fake exterior, towards the gooey middle bit of who we really are. He has an uncanny ability to see you for you, nothing else. And in that space he creates, where your entire being is welcome, you can finally answer the question “who am I”. The answer? You’re exactly who you’re supposed to be. That’s the effect that Ashur’s had on my life."
Josh Gladstone
Manager, Prof. Services - Toronto, Ontario
"Ashur has and continues to be the person I know who gives the most permission to others for authenticity. I’ve watched him transform the lives of dozens of people. He has the unique ability to communicate with people from all walks of life. Individuals, couples, teams, communities. Whatever your situation or position, he will leave you in a more grounded, authentic, heart-centered, and pragmatic place. If you want to live as fully as possible, to be yourself as honestly as you can, it’s important to have someone like Ashur in your life."
Ben P.
Non-profit Consultant - Sonoma, California
"The biggest impact you’ve had on me has been to question my reservations and walls. You’ve often asked me, implicitly and explicitly, why I am afraid of allowing myself to be free and open, physically and emotionally, in front of others? In part you’ve inspired me to learn where my own boundaries are, how to detect them, and how to push through them if they are blocking me from… anything. Thank you, Ashur."
Laura S.
Yoga and mindfulness teacher - nomadic
Something not clear? Curious, but not sure why? Just want to connect and see what emerges, click the link below to set up a call or email me directly connectioncoaching.ashur@gmail.com
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